While watching a movie today, something in it caught my attention.
The leading lady having been separated with her husband, was being counselled by her sister to get back with her husband.
While counselling, done -to - death typically the sister asks: "Pyaar se zyaada bhi kuch hai...?"
& assuredly, the heroine was speechless with the chronic melodramatic background music in place [Baaaaahh!!] ; for her to think & give out suitable facial expressions marking her sudden realisation of whatever... [:O !!!]
Thankfully I had no such special effects & could definitaly put out a better reply immediately.
- Nahi, pyaar se zyaada shayad kuch nahi, par pyaar se kam bhi kuch cheezein nahi.
Love is above everything..above all, but there are a few things which are if not more, but sure on par to love.
Respect is the topmost of them. If love is a fire, respect sure is the kindle to keep it going. If mutual respect is missing in love, then it is like having a cot to sleep but with no mattress on it....The relation is there...but not quite.
Passion is another. Passion for the relation, passion for one another & passion to keep it alive.
Communication. A healthy relation can never work out if there is a communication gap between partners. Communication binds the relation like a binder binds scattered pages into a book.
Silliness. Silliness is silly! Silliness is fun. A relation cannot survive well on a serious notes only. Playfullness brings about a comfort level, which keeps the couple & the relation young.
These are the basic most important ingredients for the food called love to stay alive, fresh & healthy always.
It maybe difficult to get the right balance of all of the above ingredients in one, but not impossible. The sweet & sour imbalances create opportunities to enhance the tempering to the relation.
& Don't we wish, hope & believe that we will create that, when we find That first step for all this - Love?
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The leading lady having been separated with her husband, was being counselled by her sister to get back with her husband.
While counselling, done -to - death typically the sister asks: "Pyaar se zyaada bhi kuch hai...?"
& assuredly, the heroine was speechless with the chronic melodramatic background music in place [Baaaaahh!!] ; for her to think & give out suitable facial expressions marking her sudden realisation of whatever... [:O !!!]
Thankfully I had no such special effects & could definitaly put out a better reply immediately.
- Nahi, pyaar se zyaada shayad kuch nahi, par pyaar se kam bhi kuch cheezein nahi.
Love is above everything..above all, but there are a few things which are if not more, but sure on par to love.
Respect is the topmost of them. If love is a fire, respect sure is the kindle to keep it going. If mutual respect is missing in love, then it is like having a cot to sleep but with no mattress on it....The relation is there...but not quite.
Passion is another. Passion for the relation, passion for one another & passion to keep it alive.
Communication. A healthy relation can never work out if there is a communication gap between partners. Communication binds the relation like a binder binds scattered pages into a book.
Silliness. Silliness is silly! Silliness is fun. A relation cannot survive well on a serious notes only. Playfullness brings about a comfort level, which keeps the couple & the relation young.
These are the basic most important ingredients for the food called love to stay alive, fresh & healthy always.
It maybe difficult to get the right balance of all of the above ingredients in one, but not impossible. The sweet & sour imbalances create opportunities to enhance the tempering to the relation.
& Don't we wish, hope & believe that we will create that, when we find That first step for all this - Love?
© All rights reserved with Biraj 3Vedi. To re-print, prior permission required from the author.
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