What Women want.. What do Women want??!!
Time & again this question is raised; in lighter arguments as well as heavy discussions. Since I find it amusing, I have often read about it at different pages.. different books; in different contexts.
Discussed it with friends when in the mood for fun..[Fun coz we do know what we want. Not the whole rigmarole maybe...but we're very much aware of what we basically want. ]
I've even been asked these questions by a few guy friends who are interested for whatever their reason -- getting married, recently engaged, interested in wooing a girl, just curious.. they all want to know the answer to this one.
& I must say that I am still surprised that this one is not figured out yet!
So, OK. Here's the answer to this one. Read carefully:
All that a woman really wants is to just let herself BE. Not what others want her to be.
All that she really wishes is to be free from stereotype. Not the image she's expected to live upto in the name of society or peers or traditions or culture or religion.
All that she really wishes is to be accepted for what she is, what she stands for, what she believes in.
All that she wants is not always diamonds or chocolates or flowers only... what she looks for is the way it is given. it wouldn't mean a thing to her, if those are given just because they were expected to be given.
All that she really wants is to let HER be able to choose whether she wants to be a wife, a mother, or a homemaker, a career woman, a balancing superwoman or whatever. Not to be dictated to or be spoon fed.
[P.S: Give a woman a choice to decide for herself & most of the time she will end up doing what you want!
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Time & again this question is raised; in lighter arguments as well as heavy discussions. Since I find it amusing, I have often read about it at different pages.. different books; in different contexts.
Discussed it with friends when in the mood for fun..[Fun coz we do know what we want. Not the whole rigmarole maybe...but we're very much aware of what we basically want. ]
I've even been asked these questions by a few guy friends who are interested for whatever their reason -- getting married, recently engaged, interested in wooing a girl, just curious.. they all want to know the answer to this one.
& I must say that I am still surprised that this one is not figured out yet!
So, OK. Here's the answer to this one. Read carefully:
All that a woman really wants is to just let herself BE. Not what others want her to be.
All that she really wishes is to be free from stereotype. Not the image she's expected to live upto in the name of society or peers or traditions or culture or religion.
All that she really wishes is to be accepted for what she is, what she stands for, what she believes in.
All that she wants is not always diamonds or chocolates or flowers only... what she looks for is the way it is given. it wouldn't mean a thing to her, if those are given just because they were expected to be given.
All that she really wants is to let HER be able to choose whether she wants to be a wife, a mother, or a homemaker, a career woman, a balancing superwoman or whatever. Not to be dictated to or be spoon fed.
All this sounds like a little too much freedom to you guys? Does SHE tell YOU ever, you need to be a homemaker or a millionaire?
Does she ask you to care for her parents & then cater to yours too? Does she ever tell you you need to cook & clean & be sociable too? No, She does not. So why stereotype her? Let her BE..& then see what the results are. Your world be definitely be a happier place to live in.
Does she ask you to care for her parents & then cater to yours too? Does she ever tell you you need to cook & clean & be sociable too? No, She does not. So why stereotype her? Let her BE..& then see what the results are. Your world be definitely be a happier place to live in.
[P.S: Give a woman a choice to decide for herself & most of the time she will end up doing what you want!
I know it. ]
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i give up
ReplyDeleteLol! You are not supposed to give up...you are supposed to rather work on it!! :P
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